29th May 2008

Again from "The Little Book Of Moods"...

This time, well, is not exactly the word I wanna burst out..but it kind of inter-relate..anyhow, it's MISMATCHED..

Committing to another

Who is it in your family does the person you love resembles? How does it make you feel? Good or Nay?

Looking for the perfect "other" who will make you feel successful, beautiful and worthwhile? Big Mistake. So is marrying so you won't feel lonely or feeling that you can only enjoy with someone else- the marriage will have to carry the whole burden of your existence. And if you think the bad relationship you are in is better than none, ask yourself what you fear. Where did that lack of confidence come from?

Do you communicate well, stimulate each other mentally, have a similar sense of humor, and a shared vision for how you want to love your life?

Why do poeple stay in relationships that are clearly so wrong? Often they feel compelled to keep trying to gain the love and attention of someone- their mother or father- who wasn't able to give it to them when they were a child.

Needing someone desperately is not love. The more whole you are as a person, the less you'll need to control someone else, the less you'll strive to get others to give you what you want.

ONLY PEOPLE WITH A SOLID SENSE OF SELF ARE MATURE ENOUGH TO MERGE THEIR LIFE WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND NOT FEAR LOSING THEMSELVES.

Some really good quotes-

If you're looking for a lover, search for a friend..
(I wonder is it because you know each other well?!)

Never commit to a person you don't trust and can't respect..
(Well, this is pretty true..)

What matters most is not so much how he feels about you, but how he feels about himself..
(I don't quite get what does this mean..anyone?!)

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My day did not started out well..and God knows why..i need some fresh air, some cool air, some new air..

Practically i did ntg today except hm-ing and sigh-ing to myself..so pathetic huh?!even bruised myself..a LIL..



I really misses u a lot hubby..that is as if you even cared..oh well, i'm back to hm-ings again..OK..

tatazsk!!